1. Yes! because you are no longer attach to your past.
Many of us end up regretting the previous relationship that we had. Whether you the one who end it up or not, still there are things that still remain in us. Although we said we have 'Move On', yet there is a piece of hope in our heart saying that 'if it meant to be, it will be'. We might not able to forget everything for several months or year, but if we try hard, nothing is impossible. It might be hard to 'let go' of the past. The past cannot be changed or modified or repeated, we cannot 'let go' of the past, but we can 'accept' it as it was. We know that we are no longer attached to the past, when we start to pray for something good to happen to the people that hurt us. An apology to yourself and to the people that make your heart wounded is a must.
2. Yes! because you are not rushing the new relationship.
Certain people cannot accept the truth of them being single. They will start to find a new one and settle for someone just to avoid themselves for being lonely and alone. After a breakup, we might find it hard to stop checking the phone for text and calls because we were already used to received texts and calls from the people that we once loved. We have plenty of time spend after the drastic change in our life. No more phone calls, no more text messages and no more him/her in our life. At this time, we might want to get a new person as soon as we can. We didn't realize that we are actually being so desperate to settle for someone just to feel the emptiness.
3. Yes! because you are happy with yourself.
When we are happy in our own, we are much happier when we are with someone. Start making changes with ourselves first, be someone better and explore things that we have never experienced before. Make yourself look good and nice; change your hairstyle; and etc. Do socialize yourself and make new friends. You don't feel any lonely feeling when you are reading a book or doing things alone. Learn to be happy of what you have while you pursue all that you want.
4. Yes! because you don't feel burdened when someone confess their love feeling to you.
The longer we are single, the higher the wall we built for to protect our feeling. We tend to avoid someone who we think has fallen for us. Plus, we keep them in a 'friendzone', at that point we are start to wonder why do we keep on rejecting good people who love us so much. We then start to regret on the decision that we made for not allowing them to enter to our heart. Without us realise, we are absolutely not ready for a new relationship because we keep on making excuses to people who confess their love to us. We think the new relationship is burdening us for it keeps us in doubt everyday. We need to slowly accept the fact that we are ready to be in a new relationship. Don't be to picky! Try to accept the flaw of the person that love us. If we don't try, we will not know what happen next. At least we give people chance to be in of our life and show to them that we appreciate their efforts.
5. Yes! because you take someone seriously.
One day, you will meet someone who make you no longer feel empty. He makes you happy 24/7. You say he is the one. You feel secure when he is around. This is when you realize that you really care for him. You dare to do anything just to make him happy and so do him. He doesn't make you feel doubtful when you are talking to him. We as 'she' like to ask a question which we already knew the answer. Just to test him, try to ask a simple question which you are already knew the answer. If he lies in the first question you asked, he might so lie to you after both of you got into a relationship. You might want to leave him earlier because you don't want to get involved more with him. This is the best decision you have ever made, you will thank your instinct. Follow your instinct, the instinct of a woman is always right. However, if the man doesn't lie, you should keep him. :)
